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I am so shy and wimpy guy around women that I can hardly find someone interested in me. Recently I had a crush on a woman but I just get so nervous around her that it's hard to speak in articulate sentences much less be confident, cocky or funny. My conversation with her consists mostly of questions, which looks awkward.
The frustrating part is that everyone who knows me well does think I'm funny, but with people I don't know well I'm stiff and awkward. I don't want her to think I'm a creepy guy who can't take a hint. I haven't dated anyone and my ex-girlfriend asked me out so I didn't have to deal with it.
Why do you think you see so many average guys with beautiful smart women? The fact that she was chatting with you is a good sign. Women don't stand around and chat with people they have NO interest in especially at work.
Smiling is something women do a lot of, so I wouldn't really take that as a sign. Men tend to use more body language women tend to verbalize more.
So next time she talks listen very carefully and say she says I like Chinese food then say I know this awesome place we should go. Do it casually so she doesn't think you planned it - that is key to being natural.
Act cool and collected. The fact that she didn't ask you questions is totally okay. Unfortunately this crush at work is going nowhere because you are not bold enough to ask her out.
Bottom line: The fact that she didn't ask you questions is totally okay. MEN tend to over flow women with questions.
The fact that you make so much effort to bump into her is something only you know. The fact that you ignored her will only make her assume you have no interest and she will move on. For more tips about chatting up women, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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