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I have been working with this woman for about a month and we haven't really known each other for that long but after getting to know her I started to develop this crush on her. Initially I wrote it off as nothing but somehow I got convinced that we would make a great couple. That got me thinking that maybe there is something there....
I am pretty formal with her and treat her like a buddy but don't do the whole "touching" which is supposedly how we are supposed to give girls signs but come on if a women said let's hang out that is pretty clear.
It sounds like this woman is really giving you a lesson in regards to human diversity and interests. She has managed to basically refute all your preconceived ideas of what women should be doing and what they are thinking when an attractive guy makes his interests known to her.
The only time that I can recall girls acting cocky and misbehaving in front of guys, would be in school.
In that your girlfriend is so kind around you and treats you with respect despite the fact that you like her shows that she tries to be a professional at work, which is good for her. Apart from that one incident previously but everyone is allowed to make a few mistakes here and there.
Concerning her apologies for not attending your invitations to have a drink after work. Have you considered that she might not be a drinker at all and that bar hopping might not be her idea of fun? Her interests may very well lie in sports and or other outdoor activities?
Bottom line: I'm sure that she wouldn't loose too many sleepless nights over guys who won't go out with her because of her exterior. One of the largest relationship problem areas in these types of work relationships is the lack of intimacy and closeness that a casual relationship brings.
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