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My girlfriend cooled off recently. We see each other every day. She kissed me like crazy the first time we had sex and never again afterwards.
So I believe that his feelings for me have gotten very strong that the only way she has control of them is by not kissing me. Is there any hope to get her e-interested in me?
Most chances say that she's just confused about the commitment and she doesn't want to be as close to you as of now. Maybe you should schedule a date with her sometime soon. Just have dinner, and talk to her, but don't mention anything related to why she's been acting so tense lately.
Maybe there's something about her that you may not know quite yet and I'm sure that if something as this were true, she make a point to tell you and there will be answers as to why she's been holding back.
It is an insult for someone to move their mouth away when you try to kiss them. The first couple times may be a little shyness or nerves, but that is usually only initially after just getting to know someone, those "first kiss jitters".
Kissing is a part of intimacy, but some people like it and some just plain don't like it.
Bottom line: If she won't tell you why, it could be that either you or she, or both of you, need some time to create intimacy. It's just time that turns friendship into love. If nothing happen, tell her how you feel without being emotional, pushy or aggressive. Women don't respond well to that.
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