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A girl said that he was going to call me after first date. But she stopped answering my calls and seems really not interested in pursuing me. I ended up calling her to see if she wanted to get together.
I am not sure if I did anything wrong on our first date. I felt that we had a good time and enjoyed each other's company. Is her not calling or returning my calls sign that she is not interested in me?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man taking the initiative to call a girl. From the sounds of things her not calling you back could be interpreted as a clear sign of not being interested, however there may be other externalities that can be factored into the equation.
For instance when you met initially, what was your impression of her? Did you notice whether she was a shy girl or whether she is confident in her interaction with men?
When you went out on your first date did you out of curiosity ask her what she has been doing for the past few weeks? There could be four main reasons that she hasn't called you. Firstly she is a shy girl and it takes her a while to work up the courage to hook up with a man.
Secondly that the premise that she got your phone number was under the understanding of just being friends (therefore she did do not need to contact you shortly), thirdly that she is so vain that she expects the men to chase her and fourthly she could be already in a relationship.
Bottom line: You will probably be able to cross out a fair few of the above now that you have gone on your first date. It is really up to you to decide whether you want to see her or not? You could give it one more try to organize another meeting but then if she doesn't call you after that then just move on.
If you decide to meet up with this woman again, see if you can ask her some questions which will give you a better insight of the type of person that she is. Ask her about her previous relationships and how they met. Who called who or who initiated it? If she says that she did it then it could be the case she only sees you as a friend. For more tips about woman's interest signs, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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